by jerrell24 » Fri Sep 18, 2009 3:23 pm
You are going to get some very one sided answers here from people who have had experience from only one type of bird, so be careful who you believe.
I would say Cockatiels are the friendliest breed, because they attach themselves very easily to people, and all of my experienced so far have been pretty good, but that's only out of the breeds I have dealt with so far (Budgies, Lovebirds, Cockatiels, Green Cheek & Sun Conures, Indian Ringnecks and Alexandrines & Quakers briefly), and of course it will all depend on the particular bird.
I think the problem you are facing here, though, is whether the bird is hand reared and where it comes from. My advice, don't go to a pet store. There is a lot of controversy about pet stores and animal welfare, and I really don't trust these places. There is often no way to tell where their pets come from and they rely on impulse purchases for their money. I don't ever buy from chain pet stores, we support local supply stores, and reputable breeders instead, because I have often seen puppies with labels like pure Maltese, and they have cream coloured patches on them (Maltese have a pure white coat), and birds that are scared half to death, by what can only be put to being mistreated, because even an avarage untame bird usually isn't as frightened as what I have seen some, so it is pretty hard to trust them, not to mention puppy mills.
Go to a breeder who has hand reared their birds, and I can guarantee you, the bird will be friendly. Hand reared is always the way to go, because you know they have come from a loving home, otherwise these people simply wouldn't do what they do (it is a very hard task raising baby birds). All you have to do is ask your local supply stores and vets, and you are bound to find a good breeder.
----EDIT----
I completely forgot to mention shelters! I hope I don't have to explain why shelters are probably the best choice. Of course you don't have to get one from there, I'm not going to force my opinion, but I will say that I have had many great experiences with adopted pets, they seem to be the most loving, because they really do know you love them back.
So my answer : A Cockatiel (If you like) from a shelter or a REPUTABLE (this is very important) breeder.
Good Luck :) I hope you get a nice friendly bird